"Everyone and everything that shows up in our life is a reflection of something that is happening inside of us."
"For everyone you create to be dependent on you, you are equally dependent on them. Neither relationship is healthy."
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Source: Alan Cohen (1987). “Companions of the Heart: A Treasury of Inspiration and Encouragement”, Dolphin Communications Company
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