"It's easy to remember only the good parts of people if you never see them. Real people are much more complicated."
About Cynthia Lord
Cynthia Lord — Life and Legacy
Cynthia Lord is a prominent author celebrated for her contributions to children's literature, particularly through her novel 'Rules'. This work not only addresses the challenges faced by families with disabilities but also delves into the complexities of friendship and acceptance. Lord's writing reflects a deep empathy for her characters, often encapsulated in her poignant quotes. For instance, her assertion that 'You can’t always be in control' reveals her understanding of life's inherent unpredictability and the necessity of embracing change. Through her narratives, she challenges societal norms around disability, encouraging readers to foster understanding and compassion. Lord's exploration of these themes continues to resonate, making her insights relevant in discussions about acceptance and the human experience.
Quote collection
Cynthia Lord quotes
16 quotes — follow a thought to its full quote page.
"Looking closer can make something beautiful"
"Not everything worth keeping has to be useful."
"People say it's better to know the truth, but what if the ending's a bad one? Is it still better to know? Or is it kinder to keep that string of hope dangling? To believe that maybe if you just wait long enough, everything could still end the way you want."
"Why can't the world be simpler, like it is for guinea pigs? They only have a few rules: Crying will get you attention. If it fits in your mouth, it's food. Scream if you don't get your share."
"Sometimes people don't answer because they didn't hear you, Other times it's because they don't want to hear you!"
"Wishes are slippery things. You have to be very specific or you can get exactly what you wished for and still end up with nothing."
"...choosing words is harder than I thought."
"Some people think they know who you are, when really they don't."
"Just because other people think something, that doesn't make it true. Maybe there's some truth in that, but it's unsatisfying, bitter-tasting truth."
"I wish everyone had the same chances," I say. "Because it stinks a big one that they don't." - Catherine"
"When someone is upset, it’s not a good time to bring up your own problems."
"Stay because you want to be here. Stay because we would miss you. And stay because you can belong in more than one place, and one of your places is with us."
"No toys in the fish tank"
"Just this once, let it be easy."
"It hurts how life goes on, unknowing."