"Unrecognized alcoholism is the ruling pathology among writers and intellectuals."
"Long-married couples balance their checkbooks as a substitute for love-making, or they refuse each other love by protesting one another's financial error or excess."
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Source: Diana Trilling (1981). “Mrs. Harris: the death of the Scarsdale diet doctor”, Harcourt
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