"When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are."
"He thought about the story his daughter was living and the role she was playing inside that story. He realized he hadn't provided a better role for his daughter. He hadn't mapped out a story for his family. And so his daughter had chosen another story, a story in which she was wanted, even if she was only being used. In the absence of a family story, she'd chosen a story in which there was risk and adventure, rebellion and independence."
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Source: Donald Miller (2004). “Searching for God Knows What”, p.226, Thomas Nelson Inc
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