"There are times in our lives when we have to realize our past is precisely what it is, and we cannot change it. But we can change the story we tell ourselves about it, and by doing that, we can change the future."
About Eleanor Brown
Eleanor Brown — Life and Legacy
Eleanor Brown is a notable author whose writing delves into the intricate themes of identity and familial relationships. Her acclaimed novel, 'The Weird Sisters,' presents a vivid portrayal of three sisters navigating their individual paths while grappling with their shared heritage. Through her characters, Brown articulates the tension between personal identity and familial expectations, often encapsulated in her poignant quotes. One of her significant ideas is captured in the quote, 'We are all made of stories,' which reflects her belief that our identities are constructed through the narratives we live and share. This perspective challenges the notion of a singular identity, emphasizing the richness of our experiences and the stories that bind us. Brown's exploration of resilience is equally profound; she suggests that embracing vulnerability is essential for personal growth and connection. In today's context, Brown's insights resonate deeply as many individuals navigate complex family dynamics and seek to understand their own identities amidst societal pressures. Her quotes continue to inspire readers to reflect on their own stories and the resilience required to forge their paths.
Quote collection
Eleanor Brown quotes
17 quotes — follow a thought to its full quote page.
"Self-care is not selfish. You cannot serve from an empty vessel."
"Clutter is not just physical stuff. It's old ideas, toxic relationships and bad habits. Clutter is anything that does not support your better self."
"Self-care isn't selfish (it is a gift to all concerned). You can't serve from an empty vessel."
"The question to ask is what will satisfy you? What will bring you peace? And perhaps the answer to those is in asking yourself when you were last happy."
"Your own Fear is the greatest obstacle you will ever face on your journey. Let your Faith be bigger than your Fear."
"Allow yourself to experience fully every step of the journey, both the joy and the pain. You're alive. Greet the moment at hand with a grateful heart."
"You may have lost your way more than a little bit, but I believe you can find your way back. That's the trick. Finding your way back."
"Hurts and disappointments can hold gifts."
"Every room has a mood or personality...and it is this that one desires to develop."
"A highly cultivated taste, a taste that is knowledgeable and eclectic, is likely to be exciting and provocative, a personal taste at its highest level."
"Our destiny is in the way we were born, in the way we were raised, in the sum of the three of us."
"We wear our names heavily. And though we have tried to escape their influence, they have seeped into us, and we find ourselves living their patterns again and again."
"There is no problem a library card can't solve."
"We were never organized readers who would see a book through to its end in any sory of logical order. We weave in and out of words like tourists on a hop-on, hop-off bus tour. Put a book down in the kitchen to go to the bathroom and you might return to find it gone, replaced by another of equal interest. We are indiscriminate."
"There is much made in the psychological literature of the effects of divorce on children, particularly as it comes to their own marriages, lo those many years later. We have always wondered why there is not more research done on the children of happy marriages. Our parents' love is not some grand passion, there are no swoons of lust, no ball gowns and tuxedos, but here is the truth: they have not spent a night apart since the day they married.How can we ever hope to find a love to live up to that?"
"She never managed to find herself in these books no matter how hard she tried, exhuming traits from between the pages and donning them for an hour, a day, a week. We think in some ways, we have all done this our whole lives, searching for the book that will give us the keys to ourselves, let us into a wholly formed personality as though it were a furnished room to let. As though we could walk in and look around and say to the gray-haired landlady behind us, "We'll take it.""