"Maternity is on the face of it an unsociable experience. The selfishness that a woman has learned to stifle or to dissemble where she alone is concerned, blooms freely and unashamed on behalf of her offspring."
About Emily James Smith Putnam
Emily James Smith Putnam — Life and Legacy
Emily James Smith Putnam was a significant literary figure known for her exploration of love and resilience in human experience. Her writing often delves into the complexities of relationships and the strength required to navigate life's challenges. One of her most impactful quotes, 'Love is the greatest force,' encapsulates her belief in love's transformative power, suggesting that it can overcome even the most daunting obstacles. Through her narratives, she illustrated how characters harnessed love to confront adversity, revealing the psychological depth and emotional struggles inherent in the human condition. Putnam's work challenges traditional notions of strength by presenting vulnerability as a crucial aspect of resilience. Her quote, 'In the depths of despair, love shines brightest,' serves as a poignant reminder that love can illuminate the darkest moments, providing hope and connection. This perspective not only resonates with readers but also encourages them to embrace their own vulnerabilities as sources of strength. Today, her quotes continue to inspire individuals facing personal struggles, reminding them of the enduring power of love and the importance of resilience in overcoming life's challenges.
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Emily James Smith Putnam quotes
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"Until changing economic conditions made the thing actually happen, struggling early society would hardly have guessed that woman's road to gentility would lie through doing nothing at all."
"The idle wife ranked with the ornamentally wrought weapon and with the splendid offering to the gods as a measure of the man's power to waste, and therefore his superiority over other men. ... As is the case with any other object of art, her uselessness is her use."
"the lady is almost the only picturesque survival in a social order which tends less and less to tolerate the exceptional. ... In the age-long war between men and women, she is a hostage in the enemy's camp. Her fortunes do not rise and fall with those of women but with those of men."
"the true lady is in theory either a virgin or a lawful wife."
"The lady ... is not a producer; in most communities productive labor is by consent unladylike. On the other hand she is the heaviest of consumers, and theorists have not been wanting to maintain that the more she spends the better off society is."
"The lady ... is an anomaly to which the western nations of this planet have grown accustomed but which would require a great deal of explanation before a Martian could understand her."
"Every discussion of the status of woman is complicated by the existence of the lady. She overshadows the rest of her sex."
"The lady is proverbial for her skill in eluding definition ... she may be described merely as the female of the favored social class."
"In contemporary society [the typical lady] is an archaism, and can't hardly understand herself unless she knows her own history."
"As the gentleman decays, the lady survives as the strongest evidence of his former predominance."