"I want to stress, this is the experience-growing up in a working-class family-that defined me and continues to define me. It's the core of my being. And it explains, incidentally, a good deal about my love of America."
About Geoff Dyer
Geoff Dyer — Life and Legacy
Geoff Dyer is a British author whose work spans various genres, including fiction, non-fiction, and essays. He is particularly notable for his book 'Out of Sheer Rage,' which explores the life of D.H. Lawrence while reflecting on Dyer's own experiences. Dyer's writing is characterized by its introspective nature and a keen examination of the human condition. His quotes often encapsulate his core belief that creativity is deeply intertwined with personal experience. For instance, when he states, 'the act of writing is a way of understanding,' he emphasizes that writing serves as a tool for self-exploration and comprehension of life's complexities. This perspective challenges traditional notions of writing as merely a craft, positioning it instead as a vital process of making sense of one's existence. Dyer's reflections on memory further illustrate his unique approach; he suggests that our memories are not just recollections but essential components of our identity. This idea resonates throughout his work, revealing how he navigates the interplay between personal narrative and broader cultural themes. Dyer's insights continue to resonate, encouraging readers to reflect on their own lives and the stories they tell.
Quote collection
Geoff Dyer quotes (page 1 of 3)
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"Have regrets. They are fuel. On the page they flare into desire."
"The ideal is to feel at home anywhere, everywhere."
"One's happiness is very largely a question of state of mind rather than the world you are looking at."
"Nine times out of 10, the most charming thing to say in any given situation will be the exact opposite of what one really feels."
"The perfect life, the perfect lie, I realised after Christmas, is one which prevents you from doing that which you would ideally have done (painted, say, or written unpublishable poetry) but which, in fact, you have no wish to do. People need to feel that they have been thwarted by circumstances from pursuing the life which, had they led it, they would not have wanted; whereas the life they really want is precisely a compound of all those thwarting circumstances."
"Life is bearable even when it's unbearable: that is what's so terrible, that is the unbearable thing about it."
"All the best essays are epistemological journeys from ignorance or curiosity to knowledge."
"To be interested in something is to be involved in what is essentially a stressful relationship with that thing, to suffer anxiety on its behalf."
"One of the reasons so many nonfiction books are so boring is because what they've done, very diligently, is fulfill the terms of their proposals. They've written up their proposal, long-form, and often what this does is then set up a sort of serial deal, where the whole book can essentially be reduced back to the size of the original proposal!"
"Beware of clichés. Not just the clichés that Martin Amis is at war with. There are clichés of response as well as expression. There are clichés of observation and of thought - even of conception. Many novels, even quite a few adequately written ones, are clichés of form which conform to clichés of expectation."
"When you are lonely, writing can keep you company. It is also a form of self-compensation, a way of making up for things—as opposed to making things up—that did not quite happen."
"Quite often, ambition operates on a level of irritation. Not even jealousy, just irritation."
"He [Thelonious Monk] played each note as though astonished by the previous one, as though every touch of his fingers on the keyboard was correcting an error and this touch in turn became an error to be corrected and so the tune never quite ended up the way it was meant to."
"Have more than one idea on the go at any one time. If it's a choice between writing a book and doing nothing I will always choose the latter. It's only if I have an idea for two books that I choose one rather than the other. I always have to feel that I'm bunking off from something."
"If you help them (the crew) create good memories, they'll forget all the bad stuff"
"What I'm really interested in, as a reader and as a writer, is the idea of the nonfiction book that is not defined by its content, by its "about"-ness. Where you read it irrespective of whether you're interested in the subject."
"In my 30s I used to go to the gym even though I hated it. The purpose of going to the gym was to postpone the day when I would stop going. That's what writing is to me: a way of postponing the day when I won't do it any more, the day when I will sink into a depression so profound it will be indistinguishable from perfect bliss."
"The thing that strikes me, from looking at the names so far in the Donald Trump's Cabinet on the foreign policy side, is the one thing that unites them - and that's General James Mattis at the Pentagon, Mike Pompeo at the CIA, even Mitt Romney to become secretary of state - they're all very, very hawkish on Iran."
"I would hope that nothing that I write would ever seem earnest because I subscribe absolutely to Franz Nietzsche's claim when he says, "Ah, earnestness, the sure sign of a slow mind." Earnest people are always a bit on the thick side in my experience."