"And now I know it is perfectly natural for me not to look at someone when I talk. Those of us with Asperger's are just not comfortable doing it. In fact, I don'treally understand why it's considered normal to stare at someone's eyeballs."

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Source: John Eldredge, Stasi Eldredge (2011). “Captivating Revised and Updated: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman's Soul”, p.13, Thomas Nelson Inc

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John Elder Robison

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John Elder Robison is an author and advocate known for his insights on autism, particularly through his memoir 'Look Me in the Eye'.

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