"Memory blurs, that's the point. If memory didn't blur you wouldn't have the fool's courage to do things again, again, again, that tear you apart."
"Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive."
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Source: Joyce Carol Oates (1988). “(Woman) writer: occasions and opportunities”, E P Dutton
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