"I certainly believe we all suffer damage, one way or another. How could we not,except in a world of perfect parents, siblings, neighbours, companions? And then there is the question on which so much depends, of how we react to the damage: whether we admit it or repress it,and how this affects our dealings with others.Some admit the damage, and try to mitigate it;some spend their lives trying to help others who are damaged; and there are those whose main concern is to avoid further damage to themselves, at whatever cost. And those are the ones who are ruthless, and the ones to be careful of."
About Julian Barnes
Julian Barnes — Life and Legacy
Julian Barnes is a prominent British novelist whose work often delves into the complexities of memory and identity. His distinctive narrative style is evident in his acclaimed novel 'The Sense of an Ending', where he examines how personal history shapes our understanding of ourselves. Barnes's key ideas revolve around the notion that memory is not just a record of the past but a fluid construct that influences our identities. He famously states, 'The past is a foreign country; they do things differently there,' highlighting the disconnection between our memories and the reality of past events. This perspective challenges readers to reflect on their own experiences and the reliability of their recollections. Barnes's exploration of memory reveals a deeper philosophical inquiry into the nature of truth and self-perception. His quotes often convey a sense of ambiguity, suggesting that our identities are not fixed but rather shaped by the narratives we construct from our memories. This approach resonates with readers, prompting them to consider how their own memories inform their sense of self. In a world where personal histories are often romanticized or simplified, Barnes's insights remind us of the intricate and sometimes contradictory nature of human experience, making his work both relevant and thought-provoking today.
Quote collection
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"A pier is a disappointed bridge; yet stare at it for long enough and you can dream it to the other side of the Channel."
"Books say: She did this because. Life says: She did this. Books are where things are explained to you; life is where things aren't. I'm not surprised some people prefer books."
"The greatest patriotism is to tell your country when it is behaving dishonorably, foolishly, viciously."
"When you read a great book, you don’t escape from life, you plunge deeper into it. There may be a superficial escape – into different countries, mores, speech patterns – but what you are essentially doing is furthering your understanding of life’s subtleties, paradoxes, joys, pains and truths. Reading and life are not separate but symbiotic."
"It is a bizarre thought that in this [U.S. 2008] presidential cycle we could have had a woman in the White House we might have a black man in the White House but if either of them had said they were atheists neither of them would have had a hope in hell."
"Does character develop over time? In novels, of course it does: otherwise there wouldn't be much of a story. But in life? I sometimes wonder. Our attitudes and opinions change, we develop new habits and eccentricities; but that's something different, more like decoration. Perhaps character resembles intelligence, except that character peaks a little later: between twenty and thirty, say. And after that, we're just stuck with what we've got. We're on our own. If so, that would explain a lot of lives, wouldn't it? And also - if this isn't too grand a word - our tragedy."
"The land of embarrassment and breakfast."
"The writer must be universal in sympathy and an outcast by nature: only then can he see clearly."
"When you read a great book, you don't escape from life, you plunge deeper into it."
"How often do we tell our own life story? How often do we adjust, embellish, make sly cuts? And the longer life goes on, the fewer are those around to challenge our account, to remind us that our life is not our life, merely the story we have told about our life. Told to others, but — mainly — to ourselves."
"I'm interested in such things as the difference between how we perceive the world and what the world turns out to be. The difference is between the stories we tell others and the stories we tell ourselves. There is a wonderful Russian saying, which I use as the epigraph of one of my novels, which goes, He lies like an eyewitness. Which is very sly, clever and true."
"History is that certainty produced at the point where the imperfections of memory meet the inadequacies of documentation."
"What is the easiest, the most comfortable thing for a writer to do? To congratulate the society in which he lives: to admire its biceps, applaud its progress, tease it endearingly about its follies."
"Some of the freckles I once loved are now closer to liver spots. But it’s still the eyes we look at, isn’t it? That’s where we found the other person, and find them still."
"What is history? Any thoughts, Webster?' 'History is the lies of the victors,' I replied, a little too quickly. 'Yes, I was rather afraid you'd say that. Well, as long as you remember that it is also the self-delusions of the defeated. ... 'Finn?' '"History is that certainty produced at the point where the imperfections of memory meet the inadequacies of documentation." (quoting Patrick Lagrange)"
"We thought we were being mature when we were only being safe. We imagined we were being responsible but were only being cowardly. What we called realism turned out to be a way of avoiding things rather than facing them."
"The more you learn, the less you fear. "Learn" not in the sense of academic study, but in the practical understanding of life."
"Mystification is simple; clarity is the hardest thing of all."
"We live on the flat, on the level, and yet - and so - we aspire. Groundlings, we can sometimes reach as far as the gods. Some soar with art, others with religion; most with love. But when we soar, we can also crash. There are few soft landings. We may find ourselves bouncing across the ground with leg-fracting force, dragged towards some foreign railway line. Every love story is a potential grief story. If not at first, then later. If not for one, then for the other. Sometimes, for both."