"When you love someone, you love the person as they are, and not as you'd like them to be."
"The idea, shared by many, that life is a vale of tears, is just as false as the idea shared by the great majority, the idea to which youth and health and riches incline you, that life is a place of entertainment. Life is a place of service, and in that service one has to suffer a great deal that is hard to bear, but more often to experience a great deal of joy. But that joy can be real only if people look upon their life as a service, and have a definite object in life outside themselves and their personal happiness."
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Source: Leo Tolstoy (2016). “Tolstoi for the Young”, p.119, Simon and Schuster
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