"a diplomat ... is not worthy of the name unless he can say 'no' and make the other person like it - or at least not be offended by it."

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Source: Margo Kaufman (1997). “This Damn House!: My Subcontract with America”, Dell Books

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Margery Wilson

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Margery Wilson was a notable author and advocate for personal freedom, known for her impactful writings on resilience and overcoming adversity.

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