"Joy, happiness ... we do not question. They are beyond question, maybe. A matter of being. But pain forces us to think, and to make connections ... to discover what has been happening to cause it. And, curiously enough, pain draws us to other human beings in a significant way, whereas joy or happiness to some extent, isolates."

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Source: May Sarton (2014). “Recovering: A Journal”, p.176, Open Road Media

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May Sarton

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May Sarton was an American poet and novelist known for her exploration of love, solitude, and the human experience in works like 'Journal of a Solitude'.

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