Pema Chodron

Buddhist Teacher, Author

Pema Chodron is a prominent Buddhist nun and author known for her teachings on compassion and embracing life's difficulties.

Born
July 14, 1936
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453
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About Pema Chodron

Pema Chodron — Life and Legacy

Pema Chodron is a renowned Tibetan Buddhist nun and author, celebrated for her profound insights into the human experience. Her work, particularly in 'When Things Fall Apart,' emphasizes the importance of facing fear and uncertainty with compassion. Chodron's philosophy centers on the idea that vulnerability is not a weakness but a pathway to deeper understanding and connection. She famously states that 'the most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves,' highlighting the internal struggles we face. Through her teachings, she challenges conventional notions of strength, advocating for a compassionate response to suffering. Chodron's quotes resonate deeply today, offering guidance on how to navigate the complexities of life with grace and resilience, making her insights invaluable for those seeking emotional and spiritual growth.

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"Each moment is just what it is. It might be the only moment of our life; it might be the only strawberry we'll ever eat. We could get depressed about it, or we could finally appreciate it and delight in the preciousness of every single moment of our life."

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"The next time you lose heart and you can’t bear to experience what you’re feeling, you might recall this instruction: change the way you see it and lean in. Instead of blaming our discomfort on outer circumstances or on our own weakness, we can choose to stay present and awake to our experience, not rejecting it, not grasping it, not buying the stories that we relentlessly tell ourselves. This is priceless advice that addresses the true cause of suffering—yours, mine, and that of all living beings."

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"Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know."

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"Difficult things provoke all your irritations and bring your habitual patterns to the surface. And that becomes the moment of truth. You have the choice to launch into your lousy habitual patterns, or to stay with the rawness and discomfort of the situation and let it transform you."

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"The peace that we are looking for is not peace that crumbles as soon as there is difficulty or chaos. Whether we’re seeking inner peace or global peace or a combination of the two, the way to experience it is to build on the foundation of unconditional openness to all that arises. Peace isn’t an experience free of challenges, free of rough and smooth, it’s an experience that’s expansive enough to include all that arises without feeling threatened."

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"Times are difficult globally; awakening is no longer a luxury or an ideal. It’s becoming critical. We don’t need to add more depression, more discouragement, or more anger to what’s already here. It’s becoming essential that we learn how to relate sanely with difficult times. The earth seems to be beseeching us to connect with joy and discover our innermost essence. This is the best way that we can benefit others."

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"If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher."

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"Instead of asking ourselves, 'How can I find security and happiness?' we could ask ourselves, 'Can I touch the center of my pain? Can I sit with suffering, both yours and mine, without trying to make it go away? Can I stay present to the ache of loss or disgrace-disapp ointment in all its many forms-and let it open me?' This is the trick."

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"Being satisfied with what we already have is a magical golden key to being alive in a full, unrestricted, and inspired way."

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"Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world."

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"So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications."

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"It isn't what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it's what we say to ourselves about what happens."

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"We think that the point is to pass the test or overcome the problem, but the truth is that things don't really get solved. They come together and they fall apart. Then they come together again and fall apart again. It's just like that. The healing comes from letting there be room for all of this to happen: room for grief, for relief, for misery, for joy. (10)"

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"All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do."

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"To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest."

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"If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it's fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there's an arrow in your heart."

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"The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new."

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"All situations teach you, and often it's the tough ones that teach you best."

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"Whatever happens in your life, joyful or painful, do not be swept away by reactivity. Be patient with yourself and don't lose your sense of perspective."

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