Polly Adler

Author, Columnist

Polly Adler was a prominent figure in 1920s New York, known for her candid writings on love and freedom, particularly in her memoir 'A House is Not a Home.'

Born
December 7, 1905
Died
September 1, 1964
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About Polly Adler

Polly Adler — Life and Legacy

Polly Adler was a notable figure in the vibrant landscape of 1920s New York, recognized for her candid exploration of love, relationships, and personal freedom. Her memoir, 'A House is Not a Home,' provides an unfiltered glimpse into her life as a madam, where she navigated the complexities of human connections amidst societal constraints. Adler's key ideas revolve around the interplay of love and autonomy. She famously stated, 'Love is a game that two can play,' emphasizing the playful yet strategic nature of romantic relationships. This perspective reveals her understanding that love is not merely an emotion but a dynamic interaction that requires negotiation and mutual respect. Additionally, her assertion, 'I have no regrets,' reflects a profound acceptance of her life choices, showcasing her belief in living authentically without succumbing to societal judgment. Today, Adler's quotes and insights continue to resonate, as they challenge conventional notions of love and relationships. Her emphasis on personal freedom within intimacy speaks to modern audiences navigating similar dilemmas, making her reflections on love and independence both timeless and relevant.

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"Your heart often knows things before your mind does."

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"The women who take husbands not out of love but out of greed, to get their bills paid, to get a fine house and clothes and jewels; the women who marry to get out of a tiresome job, or to get away from disagreeable relatives, or to avoid being called an old maid -- these are whores in everything but name. The only difference between them and my girls is that my girls gave a man his money's worth."

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"A house is not a home."

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"What it comes down to is this: the grocer, the butcher, the baker, the merchant, the landlord, the druggist, the liquor dealer, the policeman, the doctor, the city father and the politician -- these are the people who make money out of prostitution, these are the real reapers of the wages of sin."

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"The only difference between them and my girls is that my girls gave a man his money's worth."

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"I couldn't live my reputation down - all right then, I'd live up to it."

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"My home is in whatever town I'm booked."

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"I am one of those people who can't help getting a kick out of life - even when it's a kick in the teeth."

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"It's not a college degree that makes a writer. The great thing is to have a story to tell."

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