"The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity."
"Indeed, compulsive and rigid moralism arises in given persons precisely as the result of a lack of sense of being. Rigid moralism is a compensatory mechanism by which the individual persuades himself to take over the external sanctions because he has no fundamental assurance that his own choices have any sanction of their own"
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Source: Rollo May (1994). “Existence”, p.45, Jason Aronson
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