"When inward life dries up, when feeling decreases and apathy increases, when one cannot affect or even genuinely touch another person, violence flares up as a daimonic necessity for contact, a mad drive forcing touch in the most direct way possible."

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Source: Love and Will. Book by Rollo May, Ch. 1: Introduction: Our Schizoid World, p. 31, 1969.

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Rollo May

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Rollo May was an influential American existential psychologist known for his works on love, creativity, and the human condition.

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