"The only defense against evil, violent people is good people who are more skilled at violence."
About Rory Miller
Rory Miller — Life and Legacy
Rory Miller is a prominent figure in the field of self-defense and conflict resolution, recognized for his practical approach to understanding and managing conflict. His notable work, 'Meditations on Violence,' explores the psychological and physical aspects of violent encounters, emphasizing the importance of awareness and control. Miller's core philosophy revolves around the idea that effective conflict management requires a deep understanding of human behavior and the dynamics of violence. He often states, 'The best defense is a good offense,' which encapsulates his belief in proactive strategies for conflict avoidance. This perspective challenges traditional views that focus solely on reactive measures, advocating instead for a mindset that prioritizes awareness and choice. His insights remain relevant today as they address the complexities of human interactions and the necessity of self-control in high-stress situations. By emphasizing the importance of understanding the motivations behind actions, Miller's work continues to influence both practitioners and those seeking to navigate the often tumultuous landscape of interpersonal conflict.
Quote collection
Rory Miller quotes
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"It's often been said, "Violence never solved anything." The simple truth is that when you are slammed up against the wall and the knife is at your throat, when a circle of teenagers is kicking you as you curl into a ball on the sidewalk, or when the man walks into your office building or school with a pair of guns and starts shooting, only violence, or the reasonable threat of violence, is going to save your life. In the extreme moment, only force can stop force."
"It's better to avoid than to run; better to run than to de-escalate; better to de-escalate than to fight; better to fight than to die. The very essence of self-defense is a thin list of things that might get you out alive when you are already screwed."
"Why is a caterpillar wrapped in silk while it changes into a butterfly? So the other caterpillars can't hear the screams. Change hurts"
"Here's a rule of life: You don't get to pick what bad things happen to you"
"Better to avoid than run, better to run than de-escalcate, better to de-escalate than fight, better to fight than die."
"It is much easier and safer to scare someone into submission than to beat them into submission."
"No intelligent man has ever lost a fight to someone who said 'I'm gonna kick your ass'."
"The dream is damned and dreamer too if dreaming's all that dreamers do."