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"Loss brings pain. Yes. But pain triggers memory. And memory is a kind of new birth, within each of us. And it is that new birth after long pain, that resurrection - in memory - that, to our surprise, perhaps, comforts us."
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Source: Sue Miller (2014). “While I Was Gone: rejacketed”, p.211, Bloomsbury Publishing
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