"Adolescence is like cactus."
About Anais Nin
Anais Nin — Life and Legacy
Anais Nin was a significant figure in 20th-century literature, celebrated for her intricate exploration of love, identity, and the complexities of human emotion. Her work, particularly 'Delta of Venus', showcases her unique ability to intertwine eroticism with profound psychological insights. Nin's famous quote, 'We write to taste life twice', encapsulates her belief in the transformative power of writing and its ability to deepen our understanding of existence. She challenged societal norms around female sexuality and self-expression, often delving into the inner lives of her characters with remarkable sensitivity. Nin's perspective on identity is vividly expressed in her assertion that 'We do not see things as they are, we see them as we are', which underscores her view that personal experiences shape our perceptions. This idea reflects her broader philosophical stance that emphasizes the subjective nature of reality, inviting readers to explore their own emotional landscapes. Her work continues to resonate, offering insights into the human condition and the intricate dance between self and society. The relevance of Nin's quotes today lies in their emotional honesty and depth, encouraging readers to confront their own identities and relationships. Her legacy as a writer who fearlessly navigated the complexities of love and self-discovery remains influential, inspiring new generations to embrace their authentic selves.
Quote collection
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"We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are."
"Throw your dreams into space like a kite, and you do not know what it will bring back, a new life, a new friend, a new love, a new country."
"My mission, should I choose to accept it, is to find peace with exactly who and what I am. To take pride in my thoughts, my appearance, my talents, my flaws and to stop this incessant worrying that I can’t be loved as I am."
"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage."
"Life, religion and art all converge in Bali. They have no word in their language for 'artist' or 'art.' Everyone is an artist."
"Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings."
"Each friend represents a world in us, a world not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
"Don't let one cloud obliterate the whole sky."
"Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source."
"You cannot save people. You can only love them."
"What we call our destiny is truly our character and that character can be altered. The knowledge that we are responsible for our actions and attitudes does not need to be discouraging, because it also means that we are free to change this destiny. One is not in bondage to the past, which has shaped our feelings, to race, inheritance, background. All this can be altered if we have the courage to examine how it formed us. We can alter the chemistry provided we have the courage to dissect the elements."
"When your beauty struck me, it dissolved me. Deep down, I am not different from you. I dreamed you, I wished for your existence. I see in you that part of me which is you. I surrender my sincerity because if I love you it means we share the same fantasies, we share the same madness."
"When we blindly adopt a religion, a political system, a literary dogma, we become automatons. We cease to grow."
"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom."
"People living deeply have no fear of death."
"We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another, unevenly. We grow partially. We are relative. We are mature in one realm, childish in another. The past, present, and future mingle and pull us backward, forward, or fix us in the present. We are made of layers, cells, constellations."
"The human father has to be confronted and recognized as human, as man who created a child and then, by his absence, left the child fatherless and then Godless."
"From the backstabbing co-worker to the meddling sister-in-law, you are in charge of how you react to the people and events in your life. You can either give negativity power over your life or you can choose happiness instead. Take control and choose to focus on what is important in your life. Those who cannot live fully often become destroyers of life."
"Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age."