"How different things might be if, rather than saying "I think I'm in love," we were saying "I've connected with someone in a way that makes me think I'm on the way to knowing love." Or if instead of saying "I am in love" we say "I am loving" or "I will love." Our patterns around romantic love are unlikely to change if we do not change our language."
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Knowing Love
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Bell Hooks
Author, Feminist, Social Activist
Bell Hooks
Author, Feminist, Social Activist
"We fear that evaluating our needs and then carefully choosing partners will reveal that there is no one for us to love. Most of us prefer to have a partner who is lacking than no partner at all. What becomes apparent is that we may be more interested in finding a partner than in knowing love."
Bell Hooks
Author, Feminist, Social Activist
"Knowing love or the hope of knowing love is the anchor that keeps us from falling into that sea of despair."
Francine Pascal
Author
"But the way I see it, dying without knowing love would be a tragedy."
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