"a diplomat ... is not worthy of the name unless he can say 'no' and make the other person like it - or at least not be offended by it."
About Margery Wilson
Margery Wilson — Life and Legacy
Margery Wilson was a significant figure in the realm of personal development and empowerment, recognized for her insightful writings that explore the themes of freedom and resilience. Her work often reflects her own experiences with adversity, making her insights deeply relatable and impactful. Wilson's core philosophy centers around the idea that true freedom is not just the absence of external constraints but also the liberation of the mind and spirit. She famously stated, 'Freedom is not merely the absence of chains,' which underscores her belief that emotional and psychological barriers must also be dismantled for one to achieve genuine autonomy. This perspective challenges the conventional understanding of freedom, inviting readers to consider the internal struggles that often accompany external circumstances. Her quotes resonate with many, as they articulate the journey of self-discovery and the strength found in overcoming life's challenges. Wilson's assertion that 'In the face of adversity, we find our true selves' captures her belief that personal trials are essential for growth and self-realization. Her work continues to inspire individuals to embrace their struggles as opportunities for transformation, making her insights relevant in today's world where resilience is more crucial than ever.
Quote collection
Margery Wilson quotes (page 1 of 2)
24 quotes — follow a thought to its full quote page.
"The hope of any nation lies in the personal qualities of its individual members."
"Speaking of opinions, the charming woman does not air hers very freely. The crude woman is eager to let you know what she thinks of every matter, person or object that bobs up. She comments on every passing item - even in public, as you may have noticed. Not only is it bad taste for her to be so desperately interested in her own reactions and opinions - but she throws away the precious aura of reserve and mystery that makes a woman attractive."
"If Democracy should fail, it would be because we had been so lacking in self-discipline that our personal problems had taken all our substance and energies, leaving us nothing of value to contribute to the commonwealth."
"So few people can think and talk at the same time."
"they're the sort of people one invites to lunch or tea, but never to dinner."
"The steadily inward look leads us all to death, nations as well as persons, and is equally infantile in them all. Perhaps the most useful thing I have learned in my lifetime is that the process of maturing gradually turns the mind away from the small-self to the greater-self that is only served by serving others."
"Women will not, for many a year, perhaps never, descend again to the status of toys."
"Charm lies in complete forgetfulness of self."
"Life pulls at bewildered humanity in so many ways! Blessed is the woman who makes her life a career of stimulating the courage of others."
"Conversation is much like a tennis game except that in tennis you try to put the ball in the most difficult position for the one who must hit it - while in conversation you must try to put it where it will be easy to hit."
"If you happen to find it hard to have sustained conversations, try keeping your voice up at the end of the sentence. There is a charming graciousness in doing so, for it seems to say that you do not think your remarks are the last words to be said on the subject. It prevents you from seeming opinionated. How men dislike an opinionated woman! No one really likes her! To keep your voice up sounds as though you are interested in other people's ideas. The subject is still open!"
"You can never be free from limitation until you are willing to recognize that you and you alone are responsible for what you are. After you have passed infancy you are not a victim of anything but your own thinking."
"The very thing that seems to impede your progress can often be turned to account for you."
"All life is a delusion of the senses."
"No one could have been more surprised than I at my successes, and yet deep within me there was acknowledgment that had I not succeeded, I would have been equally surprised."
"Try to think of your thoughts as boomerangs - that is actually what they are - except that our thoughts multiply and each returns to us with a brood like itself."
"any fair-minded person will agree that humanity hasn't the faintest inkling, at this time, of the powers and laws that will, sometime, be known and used."
"To be alive is sufficient evidence that we are needed in the world. Otherwise we wouldn't be here."
"Flirting is a cheap, dangerous shortcut to get something you can't hold after you get it."