"We all live in suspense, from day to day, from hour to hour; in other words, we are the hero of our own story."
"I suppose everyone continues to be interested in the quest for the self, but what you feel when you're older, I think, is that ... you really must make the self. It is absolutely useless to look for it, you won't find it, but it's possible in some sense to make it. I don't mean in the sense of making a mask, a Yeatsian mask. But you finally begin in some sense to make and choose the self you want."
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Source: Look Magazine, February 26, 1964.
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