"We all live in suspense, from day to day, from hour to hour; in other words, we are the hero of our own story."
"Yet friendship, I believe, is essential to intellectuals. It is probably the growth hormone the mind requires as it begins its activity of producing and exchanging ideas. You can date the evolving life of a mind, like the age of a tree, by the rings of friendship formed by the expanding central trunk. In the course of my history, not love or marriage so much as friendship has promoted growth."
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Source: Mary McCarthy (1975). “The company she keeps”, Not Avail
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