"sex has never been private and it never will be. We perform the act in private but we must be public about the connection. Sex is how we pass down worldly goods. It's how we create the primary unit of our society, the couple. ... This rule applies to gay people as well as straight people. ... The community absolutely must know who is straight, who is gay, who is married, and who is single. Without that information we make painful mistakes and lose time."

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Source: Rita Mae Brown (2014). “In Her Day”, p.113, Bantam

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Rita Mae Brown

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Rita Mae Brown is an American author and activist known for her groundbreaking novel 'Rubyfruit Jungle,' which explores themes of love and identity.

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