"You learn not to mourn every little thing out here, or you’d never, ever stop grieving."
About Alexandra Fuller
Alexandra Fuller — Life and Legacy
Alexandra Fuller is a celebrated author whose works delve into the complexities of love and identity, particularly through the lens of her childhood in Africa. Her memoir, 'Don’t Let’s Go to the Dogs Tonight,' offers a poignant exploration of her upbringing amidst the backdrop of war and cultural upheaval. Fuller’s writing is characterized by its emotional depth and vivid imagery, capturing the struggles and joys of her experiences. Fuller’s key ideas revolve around the notion that our identities are intricately tied to our personal narratives. She articulates this through quotes like, 'We are all stories in the end,' which underscores the importance of storytelling in understanding ourselves and others. This perspective challenges conventional notions of identity, suggesting that it is fluid and shaped by our experiences and relationships. The relevance of Fuller’s quotes and ideas continues to resonate today, as they invite readers to reflect on their own stories and the complexities of belonging. Her work not only highlights the beauty of love but also the pain that often accompanies it, making her insights profoundly relatable and impactful.
Quote collection
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"But I plucked a new, different, worldly soul for myself -- maybe a soul I found in the spray thrown up by the surge of that distant African river as it plummets onto black rocks and sends up into the sun a permanent arc of a rainbow."
"I am becoming increasingly difficult to please as a reader, but I adore being surprised by a really wonderful book, written by someone I've never heard of before."
"One of the things about being raised British in Africa is that you get this double whammy of toughness. The continent in place itself made you quite tough. And then you've got this British mother whose entire being rejects 'coddling' in case it makes you too soft. So there's absolutely nothing standing between you and a fairly rough experience."
"How you see a country depends on whether you are driving through it, or live in it. How you see a country depends on whether or not you can leave it, if you have to."
"This is not a full circle. It's life carrying on. It's the next breath we all take. It's the choice we make to get on with it."
"What is important is the story. Because when we are all dust and teeth and kicked-up bits of skin - when we're dancing with our own skeletons - our words might be all that's left of us."
"I love my mother so much, because I see the whole of her."
"Until I read Anne Frank's diary, I had found books a literal escape from what could be the harsh reality around me. After I read the diary, I had a fresh way of viewing the both literature and the world. From then on, I found I was impatient with books that were not honest or that were trivial and frivolous."
"It's a long day's drive any way you look at it. With a man who has taken your sins - real and imagined - and stitched them onto the sackcloth of his own soul, it is endless."
"The land itself, of course, was careless of its name. It still is. You can call it what you like, fight all the wars you want in its name. Change its name altogether if you like. The land is still unblinking under the African sky. It will absorb white man's blood and the blood of African men, it will absorb blood from slaughtered cattle and the blood from a woman's birthing with equal thirst. It doesn't care."
"You can't rewind war. It spools on, and on, and on, looping and jumping, distorted and cracked with age, and the stories contract until only the nuggets of hatred remain and no one can even remember, or imagine, why the war was organized in the first place."
"The rains are rhythmic, coming religiously in the afternoons (after lunch has been eaten but before tea, so that the nights are washed clean-black with bright pinpoints of silver starlight hanging over a restless, grateful earth)."
"There aren't enough doctors in Africa. Those who choose to become doctors here don't do it for the money or because they want to do good. They do it because they have to heal, the way most people need to breathe or eat or love."
"Surely until all of us own and honor one another's dead, until we have admitted to our murders and forgiven one another and ourselves for what we have done, there can be no truce, no dignity and no peace."
"I listen mostly to classical music."
"FBI Girl is a gorgeous, sumptuous book. Conlon-McIvor takes a subject (herself and her family) that might have sunk in other hands, beats egg white under her words and the whole thing rises like a dream. It's a love story for her people and for a time and place. Read it."
"In general, I almost always watch foreign films."
"In ways I don't entirely have the words for an experience, thought or a lesson isn't real for me until I've written down."
"People who disagree with His Excellency, the President for Life and 'Chief of Chiefs,' are frequently found to be the victims of car crashes (their bodies mysteriously riddled with bullets); or dead in their beds of heart attacks (their bodies mysteriously riddled with bullets); or the recipients of some not-quite-fresh seafood (their bodies mysteriously riddled with bullets)."