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"Tears water our growth."
"Suppressed grief suffocates, it rages within the breast, and is forced to multiply its strength."
"In the depths of every heart, there is a tomb and a dungeon, though the lights, the music, and revelry above may cause us to forget their existence, and the buried ones, or prisoners whom they hide. But sometimes, and oftenest at midnight, those dark receptacles are flung wide open. In an hour like this, when the mind has a passive sensibility, but no active strength; when the imagination is a mirror, imparting vividness to all ideas, without the power of selecting or controlling them; then pray that your grieves may slumber, and the brotherhood of remorse not break their chain."
"What the eye doesn't see, the heart doesn't grieve over."
"No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear."
"We say that the hour of death cannot be forecast, but when we say this we imagine that hour as placed in an obscure and distant future. It never occurs to us that it has any connection with the day already begun or that death could arrive this same afternoon, this afternoon which is so certain and which has every hour filled in advance."
"To spare oneself from grief at all cost can be achieved only at the price of total detachment, which excludes the ability to experience happiness"
"You learn not to mourn every little thing out here, or you’d never, ever stop grieving."
"When the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance."
"In the face of suffering, one has no right to turn away, not to see. In the face of injustice, one may not look the other way. When someone suffers, and it is not you, that person comes first. One's very suffering gives one priority. . . . To watch over one who grieves is a more urgent duty than to think of God."
"Every day I'll wear your memory like a favorite shirt upon my back"
"Do not grieve over someone who changes all of the sudden. It might be that he has given up acting and returned to his true self."
"Everything is meant to be lost, that the soul may stand in unhampered nothingness"
"It's so much darker when a light goes out than it would have been if it had never shone."
"When everything is dark, when we are surrounded by despairing voices, when we do not see any exits, then we can find salvation in a remembered love, a love which is not simply a recollection of a bygone past but a living force which sustains us in the present. Through memory, love transcends the limits of time and offers hope at any moment of our lives."
"What I am looking for is not out there, it is in me."
"Take all away. I am content to know Such love is mine-for life is all too brief To grieve for pleasures bringing only grief; Give me but You; it is enough just so."
"I never wanted to go away, and the hard part now is the leaving you all. I'm not afraid, but it seems as if I should be homesick for you even in heaven."
"Do not grieve over any joy that has gone forever, for it will return to you in another form, know that for sure."
"We are healed of a suffering only by experiencing it to the full."