"Just think: people decided one day that a day should be set aside for motherhood and fatherhood. What a great concept that is."
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Patti Davis quotes (page 2 of 3)
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"There is a point in the grieving process when you can run away from memories or walk straight toward them."
"I'm very comfortable writing in the first person; it dives into the character in a way that's difficult if you're writing in the third person."
"People love the way they're capable of loving-but that's not always how you want them to love or how you think they should love."
"The house I grew up in had large plate-glass windows, which birds frequently crashed into headfirst. My father helped me assemble a bird hospital, consisting of a few shoe boxes, some old rags, and tiny dishes for water and food."
"The most ethical way to deal with an unethical situation would be to simply say: 'We did something wrong.' But nobody in a family like mine would ever respond like this."
"Loss teaches you to figure things out as they come along."
"it ultimately doesn't matter which disease gnaws away at the body - it looks the same. The flesh surrenders, grows exhausted, and the eyes ask why."
"Decades later I would look into my father's eyes and try to reach past the murkiness of Alzheimer's with my words, my apology, hoping that in his heart he heard me and understood."
"I thought the best thing that I could do would be to clean up my own act, in terms of whatever .. childhood wounds were left."
"America had taken my father from me. And over most of the years of his illness, I gradually started feeling this support system from this country who-people grieving along with us."
"Some people, when they die, leave so much life behind that we wonder how they did it."
"I don't think it's an accident who our parents are; I believe we choose them. So maybe I chose my parents in order to effect change."
"I'm not the angry, rebellious child that I was. You can remain a child for a long time. I certainly did. I was a slow learner."
"I think the earlier stages of Alzheimer's are the hardest. Particularly because the person knows that they are losing awareness. They're aware that they're losing awareness, and you see them struggling."
"You have to separate yourself from your parents. You do. In order to find yourself."
"I have a feeling of reverence about my father being in his 80s - a feeling that I want to whisper, take soft steps, not intrude too much. He's like a stately old cathedral to me now."
"I knew people were independently publishing, and I buy books on Amazon. I began seriously considering it when Amanda Hocking was in the news about her self-publishing success."
"My father's body lies in a stone tomb high on a hill. People walk by, pause, think their own thoughts about him and move on, back to their own lives. I can never move on. He is everywhere."
"I grew up in this era where your parents' friends were all called aunt and uncle. And then I had an aunt and an aunt. We saw them on holidays and other times. We never talked about it, but I just understood that they were a couple."