"The rationalist mind has always had its doubts about Venice. The watery city receives a dry inspection, as though it were a myth for the credulous- poets and honeymooners."
Mary McCarthy
Author
Mary McCarthy was an influential American writer known for her incisive critiques of society and her exploration of human relationships, particularly in her novel 'The Group.'
- Born
- June 21, 1912
- Died
- October 25, 1989
- Quotes
- 136
- Rank
- #2356
Quote collection
Mary McCarthy quotes (page 5 of 7)
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"Others are to us like the characters in fiction, eternal and incorrigible; the surprises they give us turn out in the end to have been predictable and unexpected variations on the theme of being themselves."
"It really takes a hero to live any kind of spiritual life without religious belief."
"Proscription, martial law, the billeting of the rude troops, the tax collector, the unjust judge, anything at all, is sweeter than responsibility."
"The strongest argument for the un-materialistic character of American life is the fact that we tolerate conditions that are, from a materialistic point of view, intolerable. ... No nation with any sense of material well-being would endure the food we eat, the cramped apartments we live in, the noise, the traffic, the crowded subways and buses. American life, in large cities, at any rate, is a perpetual assault on the senses and the nerves."
"Yet friendship, I believe, is essential to intellectuals. It is probably the growth hormone the mind requires as it begins its activity of producing and exchanging ideas. You can date the evolving life of a mind, like the age of a tree, by the rings of friendship formed by the expanding central trunk. In the course of my history, not love or marriage so much as friendship has promoted growth."
"... the average Catholic perceives no connection between religion and morality, unless it is a question of someone else's morality."
"The erotic element always present in fashion, the kiss of loving labor on the body, is now overtly expressed by language. Belts hug or clasp; necklines plunge; jerseys bind. The word exciting tingles everywhere."
"The dictator is also the scapegoat; in assuming absolute authority, he assumes absolute guilt; and the oppressed masses, groaning under the yoke, know themselves to be innocent as lambs, while they pray hypocritically for deliverance."
"With extramarital courtship, the deception was prolonged where it had been ephemeral, necessary where it had been frivolous, conspiratorial where it had been lonely."
"To be disesteemed by people you don't have much respect for is not the worst fate."
"People with bad consciences always fear the judgment of children."
"The only form of action open to a child is to break something or strike someone, its mother or another child; it cannot cause things to happen in the world."
"Life is a system of recurrent pairs, the poison and the antidote being eternally packaged together by some considerate heavenly druggist."
"All dramatic realism is somewhat sadistic; an audience is persuaded to watch something that makes it uncomfortable and from which no relief is offered - no laughter, no tears, no purgation."
"Old money is fully as moronic as new money but it has inherited an appearance of cultivation."
"The horror of Gandhi's murder lies not in the political motives behind it or in its consequences for Indian policy or for the future of non-violence; the horror lies simply in the fact that any man could look into the face of this extraordinary person and deliberately pull a trigger."
"I am for the ones who represent sense, and so was Jane Austen."
"Be truthful... and pay attention. I would also recommend the avoidance of credit cards."
"I suppose everyone continues to be interested in the quest for the self, but what you feel when you're older, I think, is that - how to express this - you really must make the self."