"You can date the evolving life of a mind, like the age of a tree, by the rings of friendship formed by the expanding central trunk."
Mary McCarthy
Author
Mary McCarthy was an influential American writer known for her incisive critiques of society and her exploration of human relationships, particularly in her novel 'The Group.'
- Born
- June 21, 1912
- Died
- October 25, 1989
- Quotes
- 136
- Rank
- #2356
Quote collection
Mary McCarthy quotes (page 7 of 7)
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"If one means by style the voice, the irreducible and always recognizable and alive thing, then of course style is really everything."
"I suppose everyone continues to be interested in the quest for the self, but what you feel when you're older, I think, is that ... you really must make the self. It is absolutely useless to look for it, you won't find it, but it's possible in some sense to make it. I don't mean in the sense of making a mask, a Yeatsian mask. But you finally begin in some sense to make and choose the self you want."
"I really tried, or so I thought, to avoid lying, but it seemed to me that they forced it on me by the difference in their vision of things, so that I was always transposing reality for them into something they could understand."
"I'm afraid I'm not sufficiently inhibited about the things that other women are inhibited about for me. They feel that you've given away trade secrets."
"In moments of despair, we look on ourselves lead-enly as objects; we see ourselves, our lives, as someone else might see them and may even be driven to kill ourselves if the separation, the "knowledge," seems sufficiently final."
"For both writer and reader, the novel is a lonely, physically inactive affair. Only the imagination races."
"Morality did not keep well; it required stable conditions; it was costly; it was subject to variations, and the market for it was uncertain."
"Sex annihilates identity, and the space given to sex in contemporary novels is an avowal of the absence of character."
"As soon as you become a writer, you lose contact with ordinary experience or tend to. ... the worst fate of a writer is to become a writer."
"...the tourist Venice is Venice."
"... in America ... children are instructed in the virtues of the system they live under, as though history had achieved a happy ending in American civics."
"I was going to get myself recognized at any price. If I could not win fame by goodness, I was ready to do it by badness."
"The comic element is the incorrigible element in every human being; the capacity to learn, from experience or instruction, is what is forbidden to all comic creations and to what is comic in you and me."
"Driving a car, you are in danger of killing; walking or standing, of being killed."
"Scratch a socialist and you find a snob."