"Let the other person save face."
Dale Carnegie
Author, Speaker
Dale Carnegie was a pioneering author and lecturer known for his work on personal development and effective communication, particularly through 'How to Win Friends and Influence People.'
- Born
- November 24, 1888
- Died
- November 1, 1955
- Quotes
- 401
- Rank
- #322
Quote collection
Dale Carnegie quotes (page 18 of 21)
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"I honestly believe that this is one of the greatest secrets to true peace of mind -- a decent sense of values. We could annihilate 50 percent of all our worries at once if we would develop a sort of private gold standard -- a gold standard of what things are worth to us in terms of our lives."
"Remember my name and you add to my feeling of importance."
"When the friendly jailer gave Socrates the poison cup to drink, the jailer said: "Try to bear lightly what needs must be." Socrates did. He faced death with a calmness and resignation that touched the hem of divinity."
"Naturalness is the easiest thing in the world to acquire, if you will forget yourself-forget about the impression you are trying to make."
"Names are the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
"When you're afraid keep your mind on what you have to do. And if you have been thoroughly prepared you will not be afraid."
"If we rail and kick against it and grow bitter, we won't change the inevitable; but we will change ourselves. I know. I have tried it. I once refused to accept an inevitable situation with which I was confronted. I played the fool and railed against it, and rebelled. I turned my nights into hells of insomnia. I brought upon myself everything I didn't want. Finally, after a year of self-torture, I had to accept what I knew from the outset I couldn't possible alter."
"Why talk about what we want? That is childish. Absurd. Of course, you are interested in what you want. You are eternally interested in it. But no one else is. The rest of us are just like you: we are interested in what we want."
"If you increase your success by even a mere 10 percent, you have become 10 percent more effective as a leader than you were before."
"Two men looked out from prison bars, One saw the mud, the other saw stars."
"Great speakers are not born, they're trained."
"If you tell me how you get your feeling of importance, I'll tell you what you are."
"Obviously, circumstances alone do not make us happy or unhappy. It is the way we react to circumstances that determines our feelings. Jesus said that the kingdom of heaven is within you. That is where the kingdom of hell is, too."
"Much of the best work of the world has been done against seeming impossibilities."
"Arouse in the other person an eager want."
"You can't win an argument. You can't because if you lose it, you lose it; and if you win it, you lose it."
"Each nation feels superior to other nations. That breeds patriotism - and wars."
"Your thoughts make you what you are; by changing our # thoughts we can change our lives."
"Suppose you had inherited the same body and temperament and mind that Al Capone had. Suppose you had had his environment and experiences. You would then be precisely what he was. . . . For it is those things - and only those things - that made him what he was. . . . You deserve very little credit for being what you are - and remember, the people who come to you irritated, bigoted, unreasoning, deserve very little discredit for being what they are."